Q&A: Dessie Ferguson

Dessie Ferguson, a 66-year old man with vascular dementia in Ballymena, answers our questions.

What’s changed most since your diagnosis? 

Medication since diagnosis has helped to slow down my memory loss. I had planned to spend my retirement farming beef cattle.

At the moment, my livestock consist of a gander and two geese. They are not what you would call cuddly pets, but they know I look after them and in turn they guard the farm as well as any dog would do.

‘I keep busy cutting firewood and will take each day at a time,’ says Dessie.

Working outside is still important to me and I might get cattle next year. Until then I keep busy cutting firewood and will take each day at a time. 

Dessie Ferguson

How has Alzheimer’s Society helped you? 

Our local Society provided practical support and literature about living with dementia. This was greatly appreciated by my wife and family.

I’ve also been accompanied to several activities, including a question and answer session with final year pharmacy students and attending Kilrea Livestock Mart to be interviewed by Radio Ulster. 

What helps you relax? 

I enjoy watching Sir David Attenborough’s nature programmes as well as science and history documentaries by Brian Cox and Alice Roberts.

The Blues Brothers movie always makes me laugh – it includes a great scene about the music from Rawhide, and features singers like Aretha Franklin and James Brown. 

‘I like to be outside a lot but don’t like getting soaked,’ says Dessie.

What single thing would improve your quality of life? 

Better weather would help, with less rain and storms. I like to be outside a lot but don’t like getting soaked. Farmers need rain, but in Northern Ireland we often get far more than we need! 

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7 comments

I have a family member who has had an appointment with a specialist and has been given the term Probable Alzheimers, he has been put on medication and is supposed to be having an MRI on Monday which he is now refusing to go to, can anyone give me any advice on how to get him there?

Hi Melanie,

Thanks for your comment, and we're sorry to hear about your family member.

We have an article on our website here which you may find helpful:
https://www.alzheimers.org.uk/blog/how-offer-help-someone-dementia-who-…

For more information and advice, you can also call our Dementia Connect support line on 0333 150 3456. A trained dementia adviser can listen to you, and offer specific information, advice and support. More details about the support line (including opening hours) are available here: https://www.alzheimers.org.uk/dementia-connect-support-line

We hope this is helpful, Melanie. Please do call our support line if you need to.

Alzheimer's Society blog team

A very dear friend has just been diagnosed as having Vascular Dementia. How can I best help her

Hi Erica, I'm very sorry to hear about your friend. If you call our Support Line one of our advisers would be glad to offer you advice.

Our Support Line is open Monday to Wednesday (9am-8pm), Thursday to Friday (9am–5pm) and Saturday to Sunday (10am-4pm), and can be reached on 0300 222 11 22.

Thank you

I was. happy to read about vascular dementia

Could we not open a whatsapp dementia group where we could ask questions and get in touch with friends that are looking after a loved one with dementia. We just need some one to open and be the administrator. Helps to ask questions and be in touch with people that are in same position.

Des ,best wishes from one of your former colleagues from Bombardier, Lee Murray. I have fond memories of the Friday night dinners in different parts of Montreal with the team and also the weekend trips to Burlington in the States with Malcolm, me,you and Margaret. Glad to hear you are getting some help to live with Dementia.