‘As a nurse and social worker I learned the care system inside out. Now I'm calling for urgent change’

Before she was diagnosed with young-onset dementia, Julie Hayden worked as both a nurse and a social worker. Julie's career didn't prepare her for her own diagnosis, but she explains how she learned the flaws in our 'fractured' dementia care system.

My name is Julie Hayden and I’m from Halifax in West Yorkshire. In May 2017, I was diagnosed with young onset dementia

Looking back at my career, you would think I would be an expert in dementia. l originally trained as a nurse, and after having my children I returned to full time education to qualify as a social worker.

I worked with with older people in the community. It was my job to assess people's needs and arrange appropriate care and support packages for those people and their families, right through to placement in long term care.

But neither of these jobs taught me enough to breakdown the stigma that dementia was simply an older person's disease just involving memory. What I do know from my career is the care system, inside out.

Julie as a young nurse and on her graduation day

Julie as a young nurse and later qualifying as a social worker from Brunel University 

My dementia diagnosis

My own diagnosis came after 5 years of life-impacting symptoms which had begun in my late 40s. This resulted in me losing my beloved career.

‘No one expects dementia to hit them, and especially not at that age.’

A large number of my family had lived with dementia, and I had lost both my parents to it. But I have the dubious honour of being the first in my clan to be affected in the younger age group.

My diagnosis was delivered in a cold, clinical manner by a consultant neurologist, and no ongoing support or information was offered.

Fortunately, I knew where to go as I had always signposted those I worked with and their families towards the Alzheimer's Society. It was such a relief to sit down with a dementia advisor over a coffee and have a chat. I live alone, so this option proved to be a real lifesaver. 

Lack of support from social care

As there was nothing available in my area for people with Young Onset Dementia, I began my own peer support group. This gave me the chance to meet with others facing similar challenges at the same stage of life.

I joined networks of other people living with dementia to share my voice and campaign for change across the nations, as well as on a global platform with Dementia Alliance International

I have received no support from the social care system. Currently, unless you have reached the point of being unable to wash, dress and feed yourself it is not deemed that you are in need of assistance. In fact, successive governments have relied on the ability and commitment of unpaid family carers to meet this need.

Julie at the conservative party conference holding a sign that says 'Cure the care system'

Julie spoke to MPs at our stand at the Conservative party conference

‘Many are not in the fortunate position to seek this care. For loved ones, the pressure placed on their own health and wellbeing is deeply unfair.’

Although I am struggling, the only help I need would be a couple of hours a week to extend my ability to remain independent for a much longer length of time. This is denied to me, despite the fact this level of support is an acknowledged right to me in law.

Our dementia advisers are here for you.

A path forward for dementia care

Dementia care is only accessible in a fractured way in this country, where responsibility lays across several professional teams, which don’t have the resource to communicate adequately.

In most areas, provision is tidied away under the auspices of Older People's Services, even though most older people do not live with dementia, and not all of those who have dementia are elderly. It is a real postcode lottery as to if you are able to access good quality dementia care.

This is not good enough and will never change until we develop a National Dementia Care Pathway, supporting people in a truly person-centred way from diagnosis through to end of life care.

Getting involved in Alzheimer’s Society campaigning 

Joining the Alzheimer’s Society team at the Conservative Party Conference was both challenging and rewarding. The number of MPs and senior members of government who visited the stand to speak with me about my experiences and the #CureTheCareSystem campaign was reassuring, but we really need to see action. People affected by dementia must be able to access a social care system that they can rely on. 

Words are no longer enough. We now require action as a matter of urgency.

People affected by dementia can't wait

On the 27 October, in the Comprehensive Spending Review, the Chancellor has an opportunity to put people affected by dementia first. Help us reach him by emailing your MP today.

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Until the funding is in one place then the system will remain broken. Care is funded by so many different departments local authorities primary care and nhs all trying their best not to pick the bill up so families are left with poor care or none!
Care at home can be very poor (speaking from experience) having had local authority carers that were always in a rush, we had cameras fitted and the footage is alarming even with the carers aware they were being filmed. When they wanted to not be seen/filmed they would intentionally block the view of the camera, the sound was still on as they could block that.

The support for dementia care is deplorable in England and needs to change.

Almost forgot unles you know how the system currently works most families have no idea where or what they are entitled to or how to access it, plus what choices are available. This services needs to be more transparent and easier to access.

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