End of life care during the coronavirus pandemic while in a care home
Some people with dementia in a care home who fall very seriously ill with coronavirus will receive palliative care. This advice for friends and family may be distressing to read but we hope it is helpful to know.
- How care homes have been affected during the coronavirus pandemic
- How are care homes changing during coronavirus?
- Can I visit a person with dementia in a care home during coronavirus?
- Preparing to visit a person with dementia in a care home during coronavirus
- If a person with dementia in a care home gets coronavirus
- You are here: End of life care during the coronavirus pandemic while in a care home
People with dementia in care homes – especially those in nursing homes – have complex needs, and are often frail and very vulnerable. This is why, if they get coronavirus it can lead to a much higher than normal risk of them getting very seriously ill and dying.
Who decides on end of life care?
If the person develops very serious symptoms, a healthcare professional will need to come to a decision. This will include considering whether it’s better for them to go into hospital for tests and treatment that can only be given there, or be looked after in the care home.
People involved in the person’s care should sensitively and clearly discuss this with you and, if possible, include the person with dementia. Professionals should speak to you whether you are named on the person’s Lasting power of attorney (LPA) or not. They should cover the risks and likely outcome of each option and take into account any advance care plans.
The decision may be not to transfer the person to hospital for treatment there. This may be very difficult for everyone close to the person to hear and accept. It’s likely to be for one of the reasons below:
- The person may have made an advance decision to refuse the intensive treatment (such as antibiotics or fluids injected into a vein, or ventilation) that would be given in hospital.
- They may want to stay in the care home, in a familiar setting with people they know. Or the person (or people) with LPA for health and welfare (which may be or include you) has decided this for them, because the person with dementia now lacks capacity to decide for themselves.
- It might be that any hospital treatment is very unlikely to result in a good outcome and would only cause them distress. And that the care home is able to provide good end of life care.
What care will be given at end of life?
End of life care aims to support the person with compassion and dignity to live as well as possible until they die. It will involve palliative care. This includes supporting the person physically with their symptoms and distress, and keeping them free from pain. It also includes supporting them spiritually, culturally and emotionally such as their connections with other people. Staff will understand the relationship between you and the person, and so support you too as best they can.
You should be able to be with the person at this time (see our information on visiting).
If the person is to spend their remaining time in the care home, staff there will seek advice from their GP, and specialists in palliative care if needed. Staff may give sedative drugs and possibly oxygen to help with breathing and anxiety or severe agitation. Delirium will be managed with a mix of non-drug and drug treatments. But, at this stage, doctors will look to stop any treatments or medicines that are not helping to reduce symptoms.
As part of the person’s emotional, cultural and spiritual support, staff should refer to This is me if you and the person have filled one in.
What happens if a person with dementia in a care home dies?
Everyone reacts to losing someone in their own way and at their own pace. Grief may be even harder if you have not been with the person when they died, or not had a chance to say goodbye. Losing someone suddenly to coronavirus can come as a shock to you and other friends and family members.
The fact that coronavirus is so widely covered in the media may also make grieving more difficult.
You should be able to go ahead with a burial or cremation, but currently there are – very sadly – government restrictions on funeral services.
Speak to a funeral director, but expect them to say that:
- no one with coronavirus symptoms can attend in person. Ask them about online alternatives
- mourners must be limited to close family (or close friends if no family) – and they must keep to the rules on social distancing and hand hygiene
- there can be no gathering – as there would often be after a service – for now, even at the family home.
If you are struggling afterwards, you may find it useful to speak to a trained counsellor or look at other types of bereavement support.
Cruse Bereavement Care (see Useful organisations) offer help by telephone and email.
Alzheimer’s Society’s welfare calls also offer you the chance to talk to a trained individual.