Spiritual connections: Dementia-friendly worship

We hear how a team of Dementia Friends is enabling people affected by dementia to continue worshipping at regular church services.

Julie Peek

Two years ago, a Methodist study day provided a turning point for Julie Peek’s work with her local churches. She had recently taken up a new role – Mission Enabler for Older People – at the Highlands and Wesley Methodist Churches in Leigh-on-Sea, Essex.

‘My focus was drawn to the difficulties for people living with dementia in expressing and connecting with their own spirituality,’ says Julie. ‘I came away with the conviction that as churches we really need to be more flexible and do more.’

Since then, the support and input of an enthusiastic team of volunteers and the minister, Rev Julia Monaghan – all of them Dementia Friends – have transformed how they include and involve people affected by the condition.

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Memory Worship

The first step was joining the local dementia action alliance, which covers the Southend-on-Sea area, and setting out an action plan.

Although local churches offered peer support, a day centre and a memory café for people affected by dementia, Julie was keen to make services of worship themselves dementia friendly.

‘It felt logical and practical to combine the support of a memory café with the spirituality of a church service,’ she says. ‘This is how Memory Worship came to be.

‘This is a programme of monthly services designed around the Christian festivals, with a regular pattern of welcome, singing well-known hymns, reading familiar passages of scripture and saying the Lord’s Prayer together. These are followed with themed activities that give everyone the opportunity to get involved and be creative.

‘Teamwork is very much the order of the day, as volunteers offer support with craft activities, musical accompaniment, hospitality, cake making and companionship. We have regular team training supported by Alzheimer’s Society.’

Three women standing next to eachother
A dedicated team of volunteers have transformed worship

Familiarity and fulfilment

Julie is conscious of the need for believers who practise a religion to be able to continue to worship, despite the challenges that dementia may bring to this. She emphasises the ways in which ritual and music can help.

‘I now understand worship to be a channel for recalling the past, creating feelings of comfort, familiarity and spiritual fulfilment,’ she says.

‘Music is a very powerful trigger for memory recall and can take people back to a time when they felt safe and held by God.

‘Each month brings a new example of the power of music in action – a familiar hymn has the ability to awaken feelings of wellbeing and a memory for words without a hymn sheet.’

Dementia together magazine: June/July 18

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I went with a priest to an aged care home to be the responding voice in a service. I was truly amazed the people could recall the responses and hymns when led. They joined in. Before hand I led them on a rousing chorus of he's got the whole world in his hands
It awakened my desire to discover more about helping people with Alzheimer's worship.

I have started using an app PRAY (apple) in which a simplified office is presented. On Sunday I use a format composed of two familiar hymns, a Psalm reading, a Gospel reading, a Taize song, and then communion. My residents (most in middle to advance stages of dementia) hhave profited.

Hi, obviously you are very busy people; but(!) if you could put together a few dementia friendly prayers others could use in services that would be so useful. Many thanks in anticipation

Dear Sirs,

Might you consider printing a short hymn booklet for those suffering from dementia for services at church or rest homes? Maybe it could have say 50 favourite hymns in good size print. Thanks for all you do.