Side by Side has brought joy to a volunteer in County Armagh, as well as to the person – now friend – who she supports.
Please note, this article mentions Side by Side, a service that is no longer operated by Alzheimer’s Society. Dementia Connect is our personalised service that can put you in touch with the right support, from local help to phone and online advice. If you are interested in volunteering for us, please take a look at our volunteering opportunities.
- Noted in March 2022
Susan McNickle has been supporting the same person with dementia, Dorothy, through Side by Side for a couple of years now. For all the highlights during that time, she doesn’t hesitate when asked to pick one.
‘Bringing her to see her friend, who lives in a nursing home,’ says Susan. ‘They used to be neighbours and I brought Dorothy to visit. The delight on both of their faces was fantastic!
‘To know that I helped make this possible brought me so much joy,’ says Susan.
‘They were so pleased to see each other, as it had been some time since they last met. To know that I helped make this possible brought me so much joy.’
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Tea and chat
Side by Side volunteers help a person with dementia to carry on doing the things that are important to them.
For Dorothy in Portadown, County Armagh, Susan’s weekly visits make it easier for her to get out and about to run errands and stay in touch.
‘It helps her remain independent, get out and meet people, and get all her messages for the week,’ says Susan, who lives nearby in Lurgan.
‘From time to time we call into the bus depot to pick up the latest timetables,’ says Susan.
‘She gets treats for her grandchildren, posts her letters and from time to time we call into the bus depot to pick up the latest timetables.
‘Plus we get a wee cup of tea and a chat, and share a sausage and chips between us – we’ve gave up trying to be healthy!’
Meant to meet
Susan volunteered with Side by Side after seeing the difference that support from Alzheimer’s Society and others made to her family when her father had vascular dementia.
‘My dad was my whole world and sadly he passed away four years ago. After losing him, I wanted to give something back and help someone.’
‘I love to hear her stories and find out how her week has been,’ says Susan.
Susan hasn’t looked back since then. ‘Dorothy and I are great friends,’ she says. ‘We were just meant to meet each other.
‘I enjoy her company immensely and look forward to visiting her every week. We’re quite similar in our personalities, in that we’ve a good sense of humour and we both like to help people. I love to hear her stories and find out how her week has been.’
Susan makes clear that it’s not only Dorothy who benefits from Side by Side.
‘The partnership is definitely a two-way street,’ she says. ‘I get just as much out of it as she does.
‘I hope someday, if I’m ever in a similar situation, someone will be there to help me,’ says Susan.
‘I have gained a fantastic friend who is so appreciative of my help; it’s heartwarming. I have a lot of respect for the older generation and I hope someday, if I’m ever in a similar situation, someone will be there to help me.
‘I would urge anyone to volunteer for Side by Side. In today’s society, where everyone is so busy with their own lives, I wanted to give something precious back – time. I do all this in memory of my dad.’