Dave Gibbons

Living with Alzheimer’s as well as alcohol-related brain damage

Despite his difficult past and many health issues including Korsakoff’s syndrome, Dave Gibbons is focused on a more positive future.

‘It’s been a colourful one, without a doubt,’ says Dave Gibbons, reflecting on his eventful life and the many health challenges he’s faced.

Dave, who is 56 and lives in Bradford, was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s last year. He already had Korsakoff’s syndrome, a condition that has dementia-like symptoms.

Dave’s relationship with alcohol is central to his story, which he is very keen to share.

‘I’ve got no qualms over who I am, where I am or where I’ve been,’ he says. ‘I’m not ashamed of it, it’s who I am.’

Obscure artists 

Dave is from Halifax but lives on his own in nearby Bradford. His main hobby is listening to jive, rock and roll, and rockabilly music from the 1940s and 50s. 

‘I like the more obscure ones, not your mainstream. People who didn’t make it into the charts,’ he says.

‘I used to have thousands of records but they got destroyed or damaged. Now I listen on YouTube. 

‘I like to look as if I’m in the 1950s, hence the quiff!’ 

Dave also enjoys walking and cycling, following rugby and cricket, and spending as much time with his family as he can. He has four children and five grandchildren, with one more on the way.

Dave Gibbons

Difficult time 

Dave’s first job after leaving school was as a wire cutter. 

‘I’d cut strips of wire to certain lengths for florists and clothes horses,’ he says. ‘I cut the metal bits that were used in sparklers in the 80s.’ 

He worked as a bricklayer for 15 years, before moving to London in his late 20s. 

‘My mum had passed away and I was just getting divorced, so it was a difficult and hectic time,’ he says.

‘I think I’d had a bit of a nervous breakdown, so I went to London to see if I could right myself.’ 

Dave spent five years as a street cleaner in Hillingdon before returning to Halifax to work as a night porter and hotel security guard. 

‘There was lots of partying going on,’ he says. ‘I was maybe drinking too much.’ 

Alcohol problem 

Dave describes himself as someone who ‘suffered with alcoholism’. 

‘I was a functioning alcoholic. I’ll admit it did take over my life,’ he says. ‘It caused me a lot of trouble with family, friends and the police. I lived on the streets for a while.’ 

It took Dave a long time to come to terms with the fact that he had a problem. 

‘I like the atmosphere around drinking – it’s just I can’t drink in a social way. I don’t have a stop button. I don’t know when that last drink is,’ he says. 

‘I still find it hard that other people can drink every day and I can’t. What’s the difference between them and me?’ 

Dave used to have blackouts that left him unable to remember conversations from the night before. 

‘It got quite dangerous and I ended up in hospital,’ he says. ‘The alcohol people there said I had Korsakoff’s – I didn’t know what it was.’

Dave Gibbons

Low awareness 

Around six or seven years ago, Dave was diagnosed with Korsakoff’s syndrome, a condition that has many of the same symptoms of dementia, including confusion and memory loss. It is caused by drinking too much alcohol. 

‘Korsakoff’s is a dangerous thing,’ says Dave. ‘You’re not only an alcoholic but you’ve got dementia problems as well. 

‘I think awareness of Korsakoff’s is low. They might be the silent dementia people who only get recognition for their alcoholism. “Don’t bother with them, they’re an alcoholic”. I’ve had it all the time.’ 

Dave attended rehab groups for alcoholism, later gaining the qualifications to facilitate groups for others with drug and alcohol problems. He became chair of a service user group and gave talks across West Yorkshire about the importance of listening to the views of people who are using healthcare services.

House fires 

Dave was also diagnosed with Alzheimer’s in June 2020, after some worrying incidents. 

‘I’ve had a few house fires, because I’ve been forgetting when I’m cooking,’ he says.

‘I tried to put one of them out and ended up in hospital. After the last fire, the fire brigade got in touch with my doctor for me.’ 

Dave was also sometimes experiencing confusion and struggling to follow conversations. He visited the doctor in November 2019, who referred him to a memory clinic. He then had a home assessment and two brain scans, which led to the Alzheimer’s diagnosis. 

‘It was quite a shock, I didn’t want to believe it,’ he says. ‘I still find it hard believing it.’ 

It took a while for doctors to pinpoint the right medication for Dave, but he now feels that things have improved, though he can still sometimes display unexpected behaviour. 

‘I have arguments with people who aren’t even there – it can be quite funny,’ he says. ‘If I didn’t laugh at it, I’d be crying at it.’

Dave Gibbons

Open up 

Dave enjoys attending a support group called Pathways, part of DEEP (Dementia Engagement and Empowerment Project), and two groups – one local and one national – run by Alzheimer’s Society. These give Dave and others with dementia the opportunity to influence our and others’ work. 

‘We make sure places are getting dementia friendly by giving feedback on what we’d like to see,’ says Dave, who provided input into the refurbishment of his local Alhambra Theatre. 

‘The Face it Together group in Bradford is all nice people, and I’ve met them in person now as well as Zoom, so even better,’ he says. ‘I find it hard when I first meet people to open up and be myself, but these groups have really helped me.’

Getting back 

Dave has lymphoedema, a chronic condition that causes swelling in his ankles, which affects his mobility. He receives support from private care workers, arranged through Atiq Hassan, the Society Dementia Adviser who also put him in touch with the groups. 

Atiq also helped Dave apply for Personal independence payments (PIP), a benefit he now receives for people with a long-term condition who have difficulty with everyday tasks or getting around. 

‘Atiq has done quite a lot for me,’ says Dave. ‘He points me in the right direction.’ 

Dave receives good support from his sons with the likes of shopping, and his neighbours also look out for him. He became more withdrawn, however, after a period in hospital with pneumonia in the summer. 

‘I isolated a little bit from the groups and my family,’ he says. ‘I wasn’t feeling confident enough in myself to be sitting and talking with people. I think I were a bit down and depressed.’ 

‘Doing this article is another step to me getting back out there, getting my confidence back up.’ 

Good times 

Dave also has chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD) and found life very difficult during periods of lockdown. He’s had both of his COVID vaccines and recently received a letter about booking his booster jab. 

As we hopefully continue to emerge from the pandemic, Dave chooses to look forward rather than back. 

‘I’ve got no regrets – I can’t do nowt about the past, so I don’t dwell on it,’ he says.

‘It sounds harsh, but if I worried about the bad things I’ve done in the past… I can’t change that. You’ve got to move on. 

‘At the moment, life is OK and I’m looking forward to the future. My son has just completed his diploma for the building trade. There is gonna be some good times around there. 

‘The Alzheimer’s diagnosis means I can now focus on my own journey with alcohol. There’s so much I can give back, if I stay sober.’

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Hi there, I’m a carer, supporting my client who has korsakoff Alzheimer’s due to alcoholism, she is under specialist an awaiting further treatment.. she is well medicated but as I’m in the early stages of supporting my lovely lady I’m wondering if there’s any extra support you can advise me on so I can support her to the best of my ability

Hi Sonia,

Thanks for your comment.

It sounds like you might benefit from joining our online community, Talking Point. Here, carers and other people affected by dementia can ask questions, share experiences and offer advice. You can browse the conversations within the community or sign up for free: https://www.alzheimers.org.uk/get-support/dementia-talking-point-our-online-community

You can also use our Dementia Directory to find dementia support services near you: https://www.alzheimers.org.uk/find-support-near-you

We hope this helps for now, Sonia.

Alzheimer's Society blog team

Hi Dave you stick in their I understand your Alcohol problem as I also have alcoholism but I have also arrested it for a long number of years I also understand the Dementia as have nursed my wife for 9 years with Altzimers desease which I wouldn’t have been able if I wasn’t sober so you will be in my prayers tonight mate .all the best in your recovery .

I had never heard of Korsakoff’s until I was diagnosed with it in 2019 after being admitted to hospital with alcoholism.
I have been very lucky and have almost completely recovered and I am hoping to get this diagnosis reversed when I next see the consultant.
Has anyone else been diagnosed with Korsakoff’s and then recovered?

Thanks for getting in touch, Emily.

It’s so wonderful to hear that you’ve made a good recovery and we hope you’ve managed to find some support to help with your rehabilitation.

Korsakoff’s syndrome is a very tough condition to come back from, so it would be amazing to hear about your experiences.

If you’re based in the UK and interested in telling us your story, please contact [email protected] to let us know you're happy to share more.

Alternatively, you can tell us about yourself by answering a few questions on our online form: https://www.alzheimers.org.uk/form/share-your-story-with-us

In the meantime, we wish you all the best, Emily - and we hope to hear from you soon.

Alzheimer's Society website team

Hi Emily,
I was diagnosed with Wernickes Encephalopathy which is the stage BEFORE Korsakoff's, so I had a very lucky escape/very near miss.
I was treated with IV Thiamine in hospital and I had 6 weeks IV Thiamine as an outpatient following my 5 week admission.

This was about 3 years ago, and my vision, balance and memory were all affected, but my condition (following an MRI of my brain, that I requested) is now 100% reversed, but I still take 300mg of Thiamine tablets every day, and I will continue with these until my consultants inform me that I no longer need to!

So, I was relieved to have got myself to hospital before my condition worsened to become 'Korsakoff.'
I drank VERY heavily for about 18 months and that is what caused my illness. I basically no longer drink at all ( I WASN'T an alcoholic, but drank like one for those 18 months) but now I genuinely no longer even like/or want alcohol, so that is a brilliant feeling and alcohol is basically.


#End of!

Cheers, all the best,

Shaun 😀

Hi Emily It is wonderful to hear someone has nearly recovered from Korsakoffs.I have been reading a lot of information about the causes,symptoms ,and signs and have not seen alot about the recovery .My sister in law recently detoxed after 10 years of alcohol abuse and we fear is in the midst or Karsokoffs ..We have had hard time getting her diagnosed .She is currently in a memory care facility where she can be watched 24 hours a day by professionals .It has been around 35 days since her last alcohol use .Any experience you would share with the type of facility’s that helped you and what type of doctors or professionals and or medications .. Anything would be welcome ..Thank you and good luck with your recovery .I have been clean from drugs and alcohol for over 25 years and pray for the sick and suffering from the disease of addiction each morning .It is a miracle for us to have one day not using ..Take care and hope U are well..

Hi, Phil.

You have received a reply to your comment from Emily - please find this below:


Congratulations on your abstinence for so long and I am sorry to hear about your sister-in-law.

My Korsakoffs was diagnosed by a CT / MRI scan, back then I was so confused I don't remember which. I was also on various infusions and commenced on oral Thiamine.

I was never supposed to recover as well as I have. I have spoken with my Consultant about getting the Korsakoffs diagnosis reversed but no one seems to know what to do in this situation. I don't think many people get to this stage. I feel extremely lucky.

Has your sister-in-law had any scans of her brain?

Apparently, I was extremely confused and hallucinating when I was first admitted to hospital and those first days are all a blur.

I lost my mobility due to peripheral neuropathy, and had to use a walking frame for several months. I was told I would never live independently again.

Fortunately, I had an amazing occupational therapist that fought for me to go to a rehabilitation facility when I left hospital. If she hasn't done that, I may have been transferred to an old folks home.

I also found myself an advocate that helped me fight my case and I eventually made it home again.

It sounds like your sister-in-law needs someone with experience of Korsakoffs to review her and hopefully make a treatment plan.

I wasn't drinking for as long and I was admitted in the nick of time.

I really hope you find the help she deserves, and she can make a good recovery 🤞🏻

Please feel free to ask me anything and I will help as much as I can.

Take care,


I didn't know about Korsakoff's and found it very interesting. It's good you feature real stories like this that help educate people to new things. Dave's outlook was really positive in what must be difficult times.

I really found these stories interesting, I also have not heard of this korsakoff ‘s from Dementia, I am trying my best to cope and manage my husband’s Dementia. Some days are trying. You have to have plenty of patience.

Thank you for sharing your story, Dave (and thanks to Gareth who wrote it down for you).
I find your positivity and outlook very encouraging. My mother-in-law has Korsakoff's and it can certainly be challenging.
I am so happy to hear that you're looking forward to the future and have even qualified to help others. I sincerely hope you stay well for years so you can enjoy that growing gang of grandchildren and all the joys they bring.
May you have many, many more sober 'good times' ahead!