Dementia Voice: Patrick's story

Patrick is living with young onset dementia, he has taken part in a wide range of exciting activities with Alzheimer's Society. Here he shares with you how it all started.

'Get up and start exploring more, meet others like yourself, talk about your condition with others...and don't be afraid to open up and express yourself.'

How did you start working with Alzheimer’s Society?

Well, It started when an article was written about me in 2016, called the Shining Light, it was published in Alzheimer’s Society’s Living With Dementia magazine (now called Dementia together). From there I got some recognition for my story.

The story was about my struggles getting a diagnosis at the time and getting support. You see I was a TV producer for a small local TV station called That’s TV, producing a day time show called “The Advice Show”.

I had the Alzheimer's Society on there a few times, where I met one of your colleagues called Julia Collins, to whom to this day I say has saved my life many times over. She would appear on my show and a few others around Dementia Action Week, and whenever I found a slot to interview them about various topics related to dementia.

So you can say that was my first collaboration with yourselves. The article soon followed and after I gave up producing after two years. I decided to concentrate on my new illness, see where I can work, broaden my knowledge and see if there was a place for myself to bring awareness.

What are your favourite things you have been involved with?

My favourite things I’ve been involved with? Well here are so far some of the projects I’ve been in and enjoyed.

  • Participation with the Dementia Action Alliance (DAA) roundtable abut dementia issues within the LGBT community
  • Participation with the DWA workshop at Wythnshaw hospital
  • Participation with a Greater Manchester Mayor event
  • Participation with Innovation Team Project with the new LGBT project.
  • Filming for the Hospital team project.
  • Lecturing at Manchester University, about living alone with Dementia.
  • Guiness house Trust information sessions
  • Talks to Alzheimer’s Society staff in Wales and Durham
  • Creation of LGBT Dementia Network where I’m the founder.
  • Royal College of Nursing talks for Alzheimer’s Society with Dementia Action Alliance
  • And now part of the 3 Nations Dementia Work Group

What would you say to anyone who is thinking about getting involved?

What would I say to readers getting involved or whom want to be involved? That’s very simple, If you are someone who has Dementia, and wants to be involved. GET UP AND DO SO. I was told I was a miracle because I am living proof that if you keep yourself busy your brain can cope better. So in other words, now is the time to pay attention to yourself.

Get up and start exploring more, meet others like yourself, talk about your condition with others, explore the art of conversation with others once more, and don't be afraid to open up and express yourself.

There are plenty of other people out there who are craving your company, your smile, and you will see even if you don't know what you want by volunteering, you'll find your way, and find what you didn’t know was missing from your life.

As for those who don’t have dementia but you have someone in your life that does, if you want to get involved? Do it, because it could be you one day who needs someone to help you. Having dementia strips you of your personality and so much more, so be there to help someone remember theirs. Kindness is the biggest comfort when you have this condition. And you’ll also find a piece of your humanity that makes you believe in each other once more.

Alzheimer's Society saved my life. And you’ll see it might just save yours also.

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