3. Consider dementia-friendly services
Some churches may offer dementia-friendly services. These may be shorter than normal services, and could have more relaxed rules of conduct.
These may be shorter than normal services and could have more relaxed rules of conduct. This can give families the opportunity to celebrate together and share stories about past Easter services.
If a person is unable to travel, look for ways to celebrate in their own home. This may involve watching Easter celebrations on television or online, for example, or playing hymns they enjoy. Some priests may also be able to visit, for instance to give the person the cross of ashes on their head on Ash Wednesday.
4. Have a quiet area or room
If lots of people come over at once, try to designate one room or space in the home a ‘quiet area’ where your loved one can relax without loud noise.
Some people may want to use headphones to listen to music and block out the noise. This will allow the person with dementia to enjoy the celebrations at their own pace.
5. Think about food and mealtimes
There might be more socialising than usual during this time, which may requite a bit of extra consideration. Many Easter celebrations involve specific types of food, from hot cross buns or dyed boiled eggs to a full roast dinner.
Be mindful of what the person usually eats as a full plate could be daunting for someone who has difficulties with eating. If the person does not usually have a plate of food, consider smaller portions or finger foods instead.
We've also got lots more general tips to help with eating and drinking.
6. Plan ahead
Think about minimising situations where the person with dementia is put on the spot to remember names. Consider giving a gentle reminder each time a new person arrives or ask people to introduce themselves. Speaking with family members in advance, especially younger children, may help avoid embarrassing moments.
If the person with dementia is living in a care home, ask the home in advance what their plans are for the Easter weekend. They may have restrictions on visiting times or amount of people allowed at once.
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