My husband of 51 years has been diagnosed with early...
My father had Alzheimer’s complicated by strokes. My sister has now been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s as well. She is doing well on medication. Anything that can be...
My husband Geoff was the loveliest, kindest, helpful...
My dear Dad passed away in 2020 after a long struggle...
I haven't experienced alzheimers in a personal way, i worked in a nursing home with it and saw the way family and loved ones suffer when they are not recognised.
My husband Alan was diagnosed with Alzheimer's in 2004.
He passed away 22nd November 2006. He was 68.years old an a keen sportsman who.like playing football,cricket...
My wonderful and much missed mum Anne Davies gave so much love to us all . She was talented , funny and an inspiration to everyone she knew and all the children she...
Navigating the Unknown: My Father-in-Law’s Journey
We first noticed changes in my father-in-law's memory a few years ago, but like many families, we initially put...
I am supporting Alzheimer's because my Dad has been living with Alzheimers for the past 7 years. Fortunately, my Dad throughout his life has been very fit and healthy....
My wife was diagnosed with Dementia in Spring 2024...
I will be wearing my forget me not pin this June in memory of my lovely dad, Thomas Ryan, who passed away on 3rd April, 3 weeks before his 91st birthday. My dad was...
My nan was diagnosed with dementia just after her...
My husband of 51 years has been diagnosed with early onset dementia BV FTD. This has not really affected his memory but certainly his behaviour.Lack of communication with me is the new norm Apathy,lack of Empathy are also behaviours totally misunderstood by so many. I hope that by being a dementia friend I can relate to others in the same untreatable situation.
Juliet
My father had Alzheimer’s complicated by strokes. My sister has now been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s as well. She is doing well on medication. Anything that can be discovered through research to help sufferers is essential. Well done Alzheimer’s Society!
Eileen
My husband Geoff was the loveliest, kindest, helpful person I ever knew. Family was so important to him. He was always ready to help - family, friends, colleagues, church events. As well as his career in aviation engineering, he was a passionate collector of Celtic coins and a revered expert in his field. His book about one particular tribe’s coins (the Corieltavi) was “nearly finished” for years and eagerly anticipated by coin collectors and others in this field. A diagnosis of Alzheimer’s in 2022 following months of worrying symptoms meant that he found it more and more difficult to harness his thoughts and he never finished his book. He became increasingly frustrated and angry at what was happening to him. He became much worse very quickly and in April 2024 he was admitted to hospital when he was doubly incontinent and unable to stand, walk or do anything for himself. In July he moved to a Nursing Home - I was visiting every day. He died in the December after contracting pneumonia. I miss him so much, even now, but it’s the Geoff pre-Alzheimer’s I miss most.
Sue
My dear Dad passed away in 2020 after a long struggle with Alzheimer's. It was so hard to watch someone who taught me so much being unable to do the simplest of things. I still miss him every day, but I make an effort to not dwell on the bad and to think only of the good times. Love you Dad xx
Paul
I haven't experienced alzheimers in a personal way, i worked in a nursing home with it and saw the way family and loved ones suffer when they are not recognised.
Irene
My husband Alan was diagnosed with Alzheimer's in 2004.
He passed away 22nd November 2006. He was 68.years old an a keen sportsman who.like playing football,cricket and Golf.
He passed away 22nd November 2006. He was 68.years old an a keen sportsman who.like playing football,cricket and Golf.
Annita Kendall
My wonderful and much missed mum Anne Davies gave so much love to us all . She was talented , funny and an inspiration to everyone she knew and all the children she taught. It’s so important to remember what she was like before her illness, that’s how I think of her now always busy and putting others first . She was an amazing lady whose memory I shall always cherish. Love you Mumsie! Xxx
Caroline
Navigating the Unknown: My Father-in-Law’s Journey
We first noticed changes in my father-in-law's memory a few years ago, but like many families, we initially put it down to the natural process of getting older. However, over the last 18 months, the reality became much harder to ignore. He began forgetting entire conversations and would frequently lose his train of thought mid-sentence, the words seemingly just out of reach.
In December 2025, I accompanied him to the memory clinic for a daunting two-hour assessment. It was an intensive process, involving everything from naming as many animals as possible in a minute to detailed questionnaires about his daily life. The result was a diagnosis of Dementia with Parkinson’s. Despite my own professional background working in dementia care, I was surprised to learn that those living with Parkinson’s are significantly more likely to develop dementia. It has been a steep learning curve for us all.
Since the diagnosis, his confusion has deepened, and his ability to manage independently at home is fading. Giving up his driving licence for medical reasons was a particularly heavy blow; losing his car meant losing a lifetime of freedom, and he is now having to relearn how to navigate the world without it.
We are currently navigating the frustratingly slow process of seeking support from the local council, but as his case is not yet considered "urgent," we remain in a difficult limbo. I am sharing his story for the Forget-me-not appeal to show that dementia is a complex, multi-layered journey, and to advocate for the timely support that every family deserves.
We first noticed changes in my father-in-law's memory a few years ago, but like many families, we initially put it down to the natural process of getting older. However, over the last 18 months, the reality became much harder to ignore. He began forgetting entire conversations and would frequently lose his train of thought mid-sentence, the words seemingly just out of reach.
In December 2025, I accompanied him to the memory clinic for a daunting two-hour assessment. It was an intensive process, involving everything from naming as many animals as possible in a minute to detailed questionnaires about his daily life. The result was a diagnosis of Dementia with Parkinson’s. Despite my own professional background working in dementia care, I was surprised to learn that those living with Parkinson’s are significantly more likely to develop dementia. It has been a steep learning curve for us all.
Since the diagnosis, his confusion has deepened, and his ability to manage independently at home is fading. Giving up his driving licence for medical reasons was a particularly heavy blow; losing his car meant losing a lifetime of freedom, and he is now having to relearn how to navigate the world without it.
We are currently navigating the frustratingly slow process of seeking support from the local council, but as his case is not yet considered "urgent," we remain in a difficult limbo. I am sharing his story for the Forget-me-not appeal to show that dementia is a complex, multi-layered journey, and to advocate for the timely support that every family deserves.
Caroline
I am supporting Alzheimer's because my Dad has been living with Alzheimers for the past 7 years. Fortunately, my Dad throughout his life has been very fit and healthy. An ex- professional football player and manager I believe his level of fitness has helped him, as 7 years after diagnosis he still remembers his family. Early diagnosis and medication has certainly prolonged his ability to recall his immediate families names even though he has no short term memory. As with many families of ex-professional footballers who's husbands, fathers, sons and brothers who played football professionally in the 1970's, 80's, and 90's my Dad's story may unfortunately be too familiar. This was a time when training sessions for centre forwards could be spent purely on 'heading the ball'. In the future I hope that the research into the link between Alzheimer's and heading the ball helps to protect others. Love to all the people suffering with Alzheimer's and even more love to the carers who dedicate their lives to the cause.
Jancy
My wife was diagnosed with Dementia in Spring 2024 and subsequently died on 2nd march this year. It was a terrible thing to see her deteriorating over that time during which I cared for her before going into the care system here in York in September 2025 During her care in a number of facilities she finally settled in a Dementia Care Home in York called St Catherine's Care Home where she was very well cared for. After 65years of marriage it was very upsetting and still is.
John
I will be wearing my forget me not pin this June in memory of my lovely dad, Thomas Ryan, who passed away on 3rd April, 3 weeks before his 91st birthday. My dad was diagnosed with dementia with Lewey bodies, 4 years ago.
As a family we managed to keep him at home with my lovely mam, for 2 years until he lost the ability to walk, mobility can deteriorate quickly with Lewey bodies, and the hardest day of my life was when we had to put him in a care home.
The only blessing was that he was mostly cheerful throughout his illness and always seemed happy to see us, also the carers in his home, Ashton Court, were wonderful!
I believe that my dad would still be with us today if it wasn’t for the dementia as his body was strong to the very end, he was a wonderful husband, dad, grandad and great grandad and is deeply loved and missed by all of his family,
I am supporting the Alzheimer’s Society as I believe this is the cruellest disease and there isn’t enough support for the research required or for the patients and families affected by it xxx
As a family we managed to keep him at home with my lovely mam, for 2 years until he lost the ability to walk, mobility can deteriorate quickly with Lewey bodies, and the hardest day of my life was when we had to put him in a care home.
The only blessing was that he was mostly cheerful throughout his illness and always seemed happy to see us, also the carers in his home, Ashton Court, were wonderful!
I believe that my dad would still be with us today if it wasn’t for the dementia as his body was strong to the very end, he was a wonderful husband, dad, grandad and great grandad and is deeply loved and missed by all of his family,
I am supporting the Alzheimer’s Society as I believe this is the cruellest disease and there isn’t enough support for the research required or for the patients and families affected by it xxx
Jacqueline
My nan was diagnosed with dementia just after her 75th birthday, Our nan was our everything, best friend, agony aunt, confident and a good listener with a golden heart. Slowly she started to forget just little things, gradually over the years, her health declined, she didn’t go out as much or see people regularly mainly close friends and family. Her memory faded more an more. This was heartbreaking to watch our lovely Nan who did everything herself started to need more an more care provided,eventually she ended up in a residential care home which provided safety, peace of mind and gave her life back again. After 11 years of suffering she lost her battle to dementia an underlying health conditions. No one will understand dementia unless you have watched and lived through it. Be kind to yourself. Enjoy the happy times,the funny times that’s what will get you through. Take photos and videos to relive all the happy moments. We was so blessed to have our Nan in our lives until she was 86 years of age. She was the best Nan anyone could wish for 🩷
Kimberley Nye
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