My Dad has Alzheimer’s and it has had a devastating...
My lovely mum has Alzheimers. It's not fair, she didn't deserve this. She no longer knows me but I will never forget her. She's the kindest person you could meet.
I...
I lost my mum from Altzheimers in June 2017. I held...
My mum died of Dementia in 2020 following a prolonged...
Hi, neither me or any of my family have been affected so far by Alzheimer’s.
Other things could take your life like heart issues or cancer but the one thing I fear...
I am supporting Alzheimer’s in memory of my beloved...
Growing up there was nothing I loved more than...
My wife went into a nursing home nearly 5 years ago after caring for her at home became too difficult. The activities coordinator at the home asked me to write...
My mother in law had dementia my wife and I cared for her but she unfortunately had a fall and broke her hip in hospital when she passed unfortunately my mum was...
I was the partner to a lovely man for 14 years, I was his carer right till the end. I miss him
Twelve months ago we had the diagnosis that my wife had Dementia, I'd known her short term memory was getting worse for maybe 2 years, but in typical Judy fashion she...
In November 1989 my dad, George, rang me one day and said "Where's Eileen?" I asked if he meant my cousin Eileen and he said "No, my wife Eileen. She went out this...
My Dad has Alzheimer’s and it has had a devastating affect on me, Mum passed away in December 2025 they were married for 70 years and he doesn’t remember her at all after just four months of her passing, he likes the home he is in but I feel so sad every time I leave him it is such a devastating disease and I will always support Alzheimer’s charities. Picture of us in happier times ❤️
Janet
My lovely mum has Alzheimers. It's not fair, she didn't deserve this. She no longer knows me but I will never forget her. She's the kindest person you could meet.
I love you mum xx
I love you mum xx
Jackie
I lost my mum from Altzheimers in June 2017. I held her hand as she slipped away into peace. She suffered so terribly. Following several strokes the Altzheimers and vascular dementia completely took over.
It will be 9 years next month and I miss my mum every day. She was my best friend.
It took me a long time to come to terms with her loss. I needed councilling and have a supportive family who were also grieving.
I love you mum, wherever you are xx
It will be 9 years next month and I miss my mum every day. She was my best friend.
It took me a long time to come to terms with her loss. I needed councilling and have a supportive family who were also grieving.
I love you mum, wherever you are xx
Michaela
My mum died of Dementia in 2020 following a prolonged illness leading to 5 years in a care home. She died peacefully at the end with myself and my sisters by her side and last year i did a 25 mile hike in the Yorkshire Dales in her memory. Me mother in law also died of vascular dementia and more recently my father and his partner are also living with dementia. This is such a cruel illness that needs urgent funds to find a cure to stop so many families suffering with loved ones living with and ultimately dying of this disease. Please donate what you can.
Chris
Hi, neither me or any of my family have been affected so far by Alzheimer’s.
Other things could take your life like heart issues or cancer but the one thing I fear most is Alzheimer’s.
You see in life now people who are affected by this terrible disease and my heart goes out to them and their families.
Please keep up your good work. Maybe someday a drug will be available to greatly reduce the impact that this has on families.
Other things could take your life like heart issues or cancer but the one thing I fear most is Alzheimer’s.
You see in life now people who are affected by this terrible disease and my heart goes out to them and their families.
Please keep up your good work. Maybe someday a drug will be available to greatly reduce the impact that this has on families.
Mike
I am supporting Alzheimer’s in memory of my beloved sister who was diagnosed two years ago and has recently passed away from this cruel disease. It was a release for her but it changed who she was and changed her personality. She leaves behind a husband children and grandchildren and her other brothers and sisters. We also lost our mum from this and we were not able to recognize the person she became. The sooner a cure is found the more hope someone has when they have been diagnosed!
Susan
Growing up there was nothing I loved more than spending time with my grandmother, Diana Lee. Going round to see her every morning before school for breakfast, after school for tea, and spending whole days with her most school holidays, helping her in the garden and going shopping around town together. One day, she was in what appeared to be a relatively minor car accident, but unfortunately this accident brought on a small stroke. It is believed that it was this accident and subsequent stroke that brought on Gran’s dementia.
For a number of years, nothing changed too much, but it was after a few years of this developing, that Gran started to hallucinate, seeing people who weren’t there, forgetting when we last spoke, and not remembering when plans had been made. It wasn’t long before our roles had been reversed, and the woman who had cared for me through so much of my childhood now needed to be cared for, so, alongside other members of the family, we now looked after her. We did her shopping, we took her to see friends, we visited as much as we could, and arranged for carers to stop by at meal times when we couldn’t be with her. To see someone you love, so independent, so social, so proud, slowly become someone else, is heartbreaking.
After a series of infections, and a fall in the garden she loved so much, Gran had to move into a care home that specialised in dementia support. She could no longer move, or speak, or recognise those she loved.
When Gran died, as sad as her loss was, it was also a relief to know she was no longer suffering with this awful illness that takes so much from a person.
For a number of years, nothing changed too much, but it was after a few years of this developing, that Gran started to hallucinate, seeing people who weren’t there, forgetting when we last spoke, and not remembering when plans had been made. It wasn’t long before our roles had been reversed, and the woman who had cared for me through so much of my childhood now needed to be cared for, so, alongside other members of the family, we now looked after her. We did her shopping, we took her to see friends, we visited as much as we could, and arranged for carers to stop by at meal times when we couldn’t be with her. To see someone you love, so independent, so social, so proud, slowly become someone else, is heartbreaking.
After a series of infections, and a fall in the garden she loved so much, Gran had to move into a care home that specialised in dementia support. She could no longer move, or speak, or recognise those she loved.
When Gran died, as sad as her loss was, it was also a relief to know she was no longer suffering with this awful illness that takes so much from a person.
Alexander
My wife went into a nursing home nearly 5 years ago after caring for her at home became too difficult. The activities coordinator at the home asked me to write something for the company magazine to recognise Dementia Action Week. This is what I wrote.
The beauty that remains.
Who remembers the good old days?
I do, even if you don’t
They happened
We lived them
The photographs are still in their frames
The scrapbook of a holiday
I knew would be our last
Memories shared but unequally lost
Gradual but relentless
You don’t have to forget anything now Brenda
It is us who will forget you not
The beauty that remains.
Who remembers the good old days?
I do, even if you don’t
They happened
We lived them
The photographs are still in their frames
The scrapbook of a holiday
I knew would be our last
Memories shared but unequally lost
Gradual but relentless
You don’t have to forget anything now Brenda
It is us who will forget you not
John
My mother in law had dementia my wife and I cared for her but she unfortunately had a fall and broke her hip in hospital when she passed unfortunately my mum was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s.We kept her at home with dad but she had a stroke and passed away 3days later .Sadly my wife was then diagnosed with Alzheimer’s having had so much experience I opted after 43 amazing years married and so much in love to care for her at home with our daughter and sons help.After 7and a half years she sadly passed away and went to heaven at home in my arms knowing she was always loved .whilst this has left me totally lost I feel blessed to have always kept my promise to look after her forever.God bless my sweet girl love you forever till we are together again always yours.
John
I was the partner to a lovely man for 14 years, I was his carer right till the end. I miss him
Madeleine
Twelve months ago we had the diagnosis that my wife had Dementia, I'd known her short term memory was getting worse for maybe 2 years, but in typical Judy fashion she said it was a symptom of getting old. However I pushed for Addenbrookes tests and Phycologist assessment. Then we got the diagnosis.
The Phycologist referred her to the local mental health team and our local Alzheimer's contact Julie Rose.
I cannot speak highly enough of the support and help I've had from Julie, her guidance has helped me with a number of points I would never have known so quickly about without her help.
Judy really enjoys the monthly get together and now attends a Dementia group run by Crowsmill as well, the leader there, Helen is great with the sufferers.
I would also add that the Alzheimer's publications have been a superb help.
So in conclusion of this little story, my donations towards publications, requests and the forget me not badge are just a drop in the ocean for what is needed to beat this horrible condition.
I wouldn't wish Dementia on anyone, it destroys individuals and changes lives, opportunities and plans for families.
Make that donation, you don't know what's around the corner!
The Phycologist referred her to the local mental health team and our local Alzheimer's contact Julie Rose.
I cannot speak highly enough of the support and help I've had from Julie, her guidance has helped me with a number of points I would never have known so quickly about without her help.
Judy really enjoys the monthly get together and now attends a Dementia group run by Crowsmill as well, the leader there, Helen is great with the sufferers.
I would also add that the Alzheimer's publications have been a superb help.
So in conclusion of this little story, my donations towards publications, requests and the forget me not badge are just a drop in the ocean for what is needed to beat this horrible condition.
I wouldn't wish Dementia on anyone, it destroys individuals and changes lives, opportunities and plans for families.
Make that donation, you don't know what's around the corner!
Ian
In November 1989 my dad, George, rang me one day and said "Where's Eileen?" I asked if he meant my cousin Eileen and he said "No, my wife Eileen. She went out this morning and she hasn't come back." Shaken, I reminded him that his wife, my mum, had died in March 1970. After a few moments he said "Oh yes...." That was the beginning and, after his diagnosis of vascular dementia, my late wife and I brought him to live with us in the teeth of medical warnings that we would have a hard time. We did, for 2 years until we found him a care home. My dad was a lovely man who had spent his life before the war as an acrobat in circuses. He used to show physical trainers in the Army how to exercise! He could remember being in shows with people like the Crazy Gang and Mickey Rooney, but not what he'd had for breakfast that morning. One Christmas we called a doctor because he was particularly disturbed and, needless to say, he responded normally to the doctor but reverted to earlier behaviour when the doctor, who was not best pleased, had gone.
Roy
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