When is the best time to move after a dementia diagnosis?

My brother has dementia frontotemporal lobe. He is physically well and has his own flat. The flat is now in a difficult state and there is hoarding. We would like him to move to near us in extra care sheltered if he can as having his own flat is very important to him. I worry also can he adjust to a new area. He feels very safe where he is, but it's in a poor state of repair. Any advise would be appreciated. Thanks

My father has vascular dementia which was diagnosed December 2018.
After my mum died last year dad came to live with my daughter and I.
He is still able to shower and dress himself but has trouble with short term memory loss and sometimes confuses morning with evening.
My daughter and I want to return to Spain with him as we have an apartment there and we are both becoming extremely depressed living in the uk. I lived in Spain for nearly 40 years before coming over to help mum and dad out.
I don’t want dad to go to a care home. What are your thoughts on taking dad with us back to Spain where he can get out for walks every day and enjoy the rest of his days in the sunshine.

My 75 year old brother has been diagnosed with early Alzheimer’s and is currently living in his “dream home”. His home is located on 6 acres, a good distance from his closest neighbor. Something he has always wanted. He has indicated on numerous occasions that he doesn’t want to move now. His wife and children feel he should move soon to a neighborhood. He understands that moving to a.neighborhood is eventually necessary, but he is not ready. Please provide guidance

My husband has been diagnosed with vascular dementia. He is unsteady on his feet and has almost fallen downstairs a few times. We have lived in our house for almost 40 years, but when he is 'sundowning' he asks when we are going home and it's as if we are on holiday and he doesn't recognise things - he asks how they got here as we have the same things at home. We have the chance of a bungalow which would be much safer for him and easier for me (osteo arthritis, lymphoedema, breast cancer 4 years ago, crohns disease). It is also in the same street as good friends. Has anyone had experience of things like this wanting to go home, needing to meet Pat (me!), having to lock the site up (former builder) and other upsetting and unsettling episodes? I really don't know what to do for the best as we have no downstairs cloakroom or bedroom. Please can someone suggest anything to help?

My mother was recently made homless by her partner selling the house were my mother with alzheimer's has lived for over sixteen years. I have managed to get her a place in an extra care home but every time I take her there she always says I'm not living here .
We have put all her familiar ornaments ect in the flat but still getting the same reaction when we get there .
I am at the end of my tether I dont know what to do she has no choise how can I get her to want to be there .
Iv been taking her daily for the past week and nothing then she will be sitting on the sofa at my house and say when am I getting my own place help

Help !! I live in abroad, my Mum sisters and brother live in UK along with extended family of Mum's. Mum was diagnosed about 3 years ago her memory remembering what happened this morning or yesterday is bad, but she still remembers all the family and I talk to her daily,she does now need help with everyday living making meals ect,but dressing toileting is not an issue, she dresses herself,makes her bed. the problem with Mum was she was frightend and feeling confused and I feel althrough my sisters and brother are living near her, only one sister tried to help and sort things out and she didn't cope, Mum was a nurse and worked in the NHS for all of her working life she looked after people with this disease and always said please never put me in a care home, it was her worst nightmare. to cut a long story short and it would take too long to go into it, Mum went into hospital she had hallucinations one night (my brother we found out was phoning Mum at night and not speaking then putting it down he had been financially abusing her as well we had put a stop to that, this was difficult to deal with, my sister found out it was him as she was there one night when it happened, Why I don't know). I thought the hallucinations could been a new medication, along with the stress she was going through she needed help and was not getting comfort, my sister on leaving the hospital took Mum to the care home telling her her flat had been flooded and she was only staying here untill it was fixed I didn't agree i feel it was too early for this step, but my sister said she couldn't cope as she got no help, Mum did say to me why don't they let me stay with them untill my flat is fixed she felt so bad she kept saying I would always help them when they needed it, she didn't know that there was no going back. my Mum is so distressed every time i speak to her, wishes she was dead she feels she is locked up for no reason it is breaking my heart she feels no one loves her, even though she has family no one comes to take her out, I am planning to come back as soon as I can but it will only be for weeks I have been here 35 years, but all Mums money has now gone as the care home she went into was expensive i know its too late to fix what my Mum wants which is to go home or live with one of my sisters, my sister the one who did try has moved away after always being the one who was with Mum, Mum helped every one over there financially and mentally supporting them when they needed it but as soon as she was diagnosed it feels as through they backed away. I would just like to know if there is any way someone from your society could visit Mum and talk to her about how she is feeling, its terrible to listen to the heartbreak she is going through, when I phone they say Your Mum is fine she is quite happy, but Mum is good at putting on a face sometimes, she feels she has to pretend she is Ok, as soon as she hears my voice she is just devastated and wants help, what can I do

Help. My dad has advanced Alzheimer's and my stepmother has recently announced she and he are moving to a new home 60 miles away. Dad has major anxiety about being away from home - like most Alzheimer's sufferers, he craves familiarity - and is distressed about the proposed move. Major declines in his health have all come during or immediately after stays away from home. And yet my stepmum is pressing ahead, even telling me she wants a change while she's young enough to move on (they're both in their 70s and she's in good health). She barely mentions the effect it will have on Dad, saying he soon won't remember where he is anyway. I have a good relationship with her and don't want to burn bridges (I'm terrified any fall-out will lead to her stopping me seeing Dad), but I need to frame any argument with some genuine facts. Please can someone advise.