My wife began forgetting small things in her...
My husband was diagnosed in May 2024 with Lewy Body...
My Mum 84 and my best friend 63 who was a nurse had dementia and I had so much help and respect from lots of people involved Thanks everyone
I lost my dear brother Dennis in March this year.My sister-in-law did so well in caring for him until it became impossible and he had to go into a nursing home.Such a...
My stepmother was an accomplished sportswoman, teacher, author, film-maker, journalist and an extremely loving wife to my father. She developed dementia before he...
My mother Anne and 2 sisters Frances and Caroline suffered from Alzheimer's. Caroline was carer for our mother, Frances was cared for by her husband and family and I...
I looked after my husband Kenneth Morrison for 16...
Both my parents died of Alzheimers and I currently have two sisters, younger than myself, in care homes suffering from dementia. Sad.
My partner Wendy and I got together in 2002, she was diagnosed with P.C.A in 2016
at the age of 57 in 2016.
In 2020 Wendy was sectioned and luckily ended up in very...
I support the Alzheimer's society, as for past 9 years my dad is living with it. Like alot of you guys out there,I never to this day thought my tough,strong,ex miner...
I support Alzheimer's as mum had it .it followed a bout of depression following my dad who had a stroke then died . It progressed slowly to start with and then got...
I wear my 'forget-me-not' badge with pride and as a...
My wife began forgetting small things in her mid-forties. I used to think it was me. I took her to various specialists who confirmed Alzheimer's. Mary, my wife, would never speak of those days ever again.
Life slowly became hectic with sundowning, anger, and agitation, where I was up 8 times per night.
I was advised to get some respite, but was against it; finally, and regretfully, I agreed. Not because I didn't need the help, I just felt so guilty, then the staff managed to not be able to explain her broken neck. Devestated, she went from. Home to home until we finally found her forever home.
She is at the end of life now, aged 66. I miss her every day and love her so much. The pain, I am sure you have all felt, is the hardest to bear. I will always love her even though she can't speak. I lose a bit more every time I visit, and it hurts so much. Love for them, and memories, are all we have left.
Life slowly became hectic with sundowning, anger, and agitation, where I was up 8 times per night.
I was advised to get some respite, but was against it; finally, and regretfully, I agreed. Not because I didn't need the help, I just felt so guilty, then the staff managed to not be able to explain her broken neck. Devestated, she went from. Home to home until we finally found her forever home.
She is at the end of life now, aged 66. I miss her every day and love her so much. The pain, I am sure you have all felt, is the hardest to bear. I will always love her even though she can't speak. I lose a bit more every time I visit, and it hurts so much. Love for them, and memories, are all we have left.
Frank
My husband was diagnosed in May 2024 with Lewy Body Dementia, he is and always will be my love, my life. I miss him terribly, even though he is in care and I spend everyday with him I lose a bit of him everyday, he recognises me and every morning when he sees me his face lights up with a big smile, I look forward to this smile everyday, even when he sometimes forgets my name he always recognises me, familiarity is important so I will be by his side everyday always.
I will Love you Ratbag Always & Forever 💕
I will Love you Ratbag Always & Forever 💕
Frances
My Mum 84 and my best friend 63 who was a nurse had dementia and I had so much help and respect from lots of people involved Thanks everyone
Sharon Adams
I lost my dear brother Dennis in March this year.My sister-in-law did so well in caring for him until it became impossible and he had to go into a nursing home.Such a cruel disease and so heartbreaking for the family and close friends
Lilian
My stepmother was an accomplished sportswoman, teacher, author, film-maker, journalist and an extremely loving wife to my father. She developed dementia before he died and with their deep love for one another were just about able to carry on with their busy social lives. When he died we were able to keep her at home with the help of truly wonderful carers, neighbours and friends. All this changed unfortunately when she developed a severe case of UTI. She became very difficult in hospital and was moved to a local care home. She was a very strong personality and was not an unassuming gentle soul sitting in a corner smiling at everyone. She became very aggressive and had to be regularly sedated - all very distressing for everyone involved including her I would imagine. She died (I have to say mercifully) within six months of moving into the home. A very sad ending to a hitherto richly rewarding life. I hope and pray some sort of cure or better understanding of this devastating disease becomes available in the future.
Suzanne
My mother Anne and 2 sisters Frances and Caroline suffered from Alzheimer's. Caroline was carer for our mother, Frances was cared for by her husband and family and I became carer to Caroline for 3 years. When the illness progressed and caring at home became unmanageable sadly the decision was made to move them into care.
They are all sorely missed by our remaining family and friends and remain in our thoughts.
They are all sorely missed by our remaining family and friends and remain in our thoughts.
Allison
I looked after my husband Kenneth Morrison for 16 years it was hard at times but I would not have it any other way it is a devastating illness he died march 2.the donation was was collected after his funeral
Joan
Both my parents died of Alzheimers and I currently have two sisters, younger than myself, in care homes suffering from dementia. Sad.
Glyn
My partner Wendy and I got together in 2002, she was diagnosed with P.C.A in 2016
at the age of 57 in 2016.
In 2020 Wendy was sectioned and luckily ended up in very good nursing home.
She can no longer see, sleeps most of the time and has to be fed.
She was a lovely, happy lady and I truly miss her. This is a horrendous disease
at the age of 57 in 2016.
In 2020 Wendy was sectioned and luckily ended up in very good nursing home.
She can no longer see, sleeps most of the time and has to be fed.
She was a lovely, happy lady and I truly miss her. This is a horrendous disease
Pete
I support the Alzheimer's society, as for past 9 years my dad is living with it. Like alot of you guys out there,I never to this day thought my tough,strong,ex miner of a dad would get this. But it just goes to show-alzheimers doesn't care who you are,if it wants you,then it'll get you. Im fairly lucky,my dad is 77 at xmas,and is still living in his own home and very independent and mindful, but I do see him every day all day. He's my number 1 and want the best possible life for him. I take him out and on holiday every chance I get while his mind is still his own at the moment.
Lisa
I support Alzheimer's as mum had it .it followed a bout of depression following my dad who had a stroke then died . It progressed slowly to start with and then got worse before she died.
Her memory for family members was poor. Mum remembered me as I saw her more often .unfortunately she went into care as my daughter's said that I wouldn't be able to cope.
It was the most difficult decision I have ever made but she was cared for and was safe.
Towards the end she didn't know me either.
It is the most horrible condition I can think of and it was a happy release when she died as it Isn't a life just an existence .
Her memory for family members was poor. Mum remembered me as I saw her more often .unfortunately she went into care as my daughter's said that I wouldn't be able to cope.
It was the most difficult decision I have ever made but she was cared for and was safe.
Towards the end she didn't know me either.
It is the most horrible condition I can think of and it was a happy release when she died as it Isn't a life just an existence .
Carol howell
I wear my 'forget-me-not' badge with pride and as a constant remembrance and companion. For every question as to what it represents I, or the questioner, contribute a £1 to my fundraising for AS which was one of my mainstays for help, information and care that made our journey bearable.
Sylvy was the love of my life and hand in hand we enjoyed our lives together. We were rarely apart and thus shared a wonderfully happy, active and gentle life of walking, sailing, watching rugby and, especially cycling.
As this wicked destroyer of lives - from those that suffer to family and friends - progressed I was blessed by her gentleness and softness that allowed me to look after her 24/7 at home, adapting to her needs as the Alzheimer's progressed until that night when lying close, side by side, she peacefully slipped away.
For me her illness was a nightmare but my grief and missing her is far worse.
Sylvy was the love of my life and hand in hand we enjoyed our lives together. We were rarely apart and thus shared a wonderfully happy, active and gentle life of walking, sailing, watching rugby and, especially cycling.
As this wicked destroyer of lives - from those that suffer to family and friends - progressed I was blessed by her gentleness and softness that allowed me to look after her 24/7 at home, adapting to her needs as the Alzheimer's progressed until that night when lying close, side by side, she peacefully slipped away.
For me her illness was a nightmare but my grief and missing her is far worse.
Martin
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