Many many years ago my nan was suffering with alzheimers but back in the day very little was known about it and there wasn't much help available.
I was only 17 at...
We sadly lost my Mum to Dementia a few years ago & it...
My dad was officially diagnosed with Alzheimer’s in...
My story is very short.I donate because a very good friend of mine lost his wife to dementia. This truly set him back for 6 months,so when I saw your advert, I thought...
I have been caring for loved ones with differing forms of dementia over a lot of years. First was my wife's uncle who had vascular dementia causing many minor strokes,...
My dad and my 2 sisters had Alzheimer's and i miss them so much
In loving memory of our mum, whose kindness and quiet...
Hello,
I have no story to tell right now, I do think that Alzheimer’s is something that can affect anyone so we should all support the society to find out more...
My dear husband of 38 years was diagnosed with...
My donation was in memory of the wife of a very close friend of mine who passed away recently from Alzheimer’s
I am supporting The Alzheimer’s Society in memory...
My beautiful mom was only properly diagnosed with vascular dementia 4 months before she passed away but we knew for a long time that something was not right. Not...
Many many years ago my nan was suffering with alzheimers but back in the day very little was known about it and there wasn't much help available.
I was only 17 at the time and had just lost my dear brother to cancer aged 19 I really didn't know where to turn she was sent somewhere a long way from where we lived i went to see her but was so saddened that she didn't know me I knew so little about it there was no support for family and no advice on what to do.
My nan was a bright and bubbly person before and such an extrovert.
I finally feel after all these years im am being helped just by reading your words via Facebook.
And I'm so happy there is help and support this preasant day.
My dear nan was called ivy
Much.love Debs xxx
I was only 17 at the time and had just lost my dear brother to cancer aged 19 I really didn't know where to turn she was sent somewhere a long way from where we lived i went to see her but was so saddened that she didn't know me I knew so little about it there was no support for family and no advice on what to do.
My nan was a bright and bubbly person before and such an extrovert.
I finally feel after all these years im am being helped just by reading your words via Facebook.
And I'm so happy there is help and support this preasant day.
My dear nan was called ivy
Much.love Debs xxx
Deborah Bennett
We sadly lost my Mum to Dementia a few years ago & it was awful to see her go through this horrid disease, which robbed Mum of her dignity & peace in her later years
Su
My dad was officially diagnosed with Alzheimer’s in February 2024. His memory had declined slowly over the previous ten years, and it took a lot of persuasion before he finally agreed to see a doctor. He still won’t acknowledge the diagnosis and insists he’s simply “losing it with age,” which can be frustrating. As a family, we’ve had to adjust - not just to the physical demands of being a carer but to the emotional and communicative changes as well. We’ve learned to modify our tone and the way we speak to him, and we continue to adapt as his memory worsens month by month.
Seeing how my dad’s memory loss and confusion affect him in day to day life has made me realise how important small, practical acts of understanding really are.
This is a photo of dad in his happy place on the sofa next to the dog attempting to do some puzzles.
Seeing how my dad’s memory loss and confusion affect him in day to day life has made me realise how important small, practical acts of understanding really are.
This is a photo of dad in his happy place on the sofa next to the dog attempting to do some puzzles.
Angela
My story is very short.I donate because a very good friend of mine lost his wife to dementia. This truly set him back for 6 months,so when I saw your advert, I thought I would donate out of respect for my friend.
Robert
I have been caring for loved ones with differing forms of dementia over a lot of years. First was my wife's uncle who had vascular dementia causing many minor strokes, then her dad with Alzheimer's dementia but it was ages that got him, and a friend who had a form of dementia that made him violent and distressed. All of this has been training for looking after my wife who has mixed dementia with atrophy of sections of her brain.
The thing about dementia is that it changes people there brain is different and the brain is the person. Looking after a friend or relative may have provided me with the skills to care but not the mental resilience to look after the person that has shared your life for 49 years. To see her fade away when we should be having the very best years of our lives. The dementia has hit just as we both retired on a healthy pension. Now most of my life earnings will be eventually spent on care homes not world cruises. Life can give us a big kicking. Nevermind we just keep smiling but underneath we are crying.
The thing about dementia is that it changes people there brain is different and the brain is the person. Looking after a friend or relative may have provided me with the skills to care but not the mental resilience to look after the person that has shared your life for 49 years. To see her fade away when we should be having the very best years of our lives. The dementia has hit just as we both retired on a healthy pension. Now most of my life earnings will be eventually spent on care homes not world cruises. Life can give us a big kicking. Nevermind we just keep smiling but underneath we are crying.
Christopher
My dad and my 2 sisters had Alzheimer's and i miss them so much
Patricia Bignell
In loving memory of our mum, whose kindness and quiet strength touched so many.
She gave her time freely to her local Alzheimer’s charity, supporting those facing difficult journeys with compassion, patience, and dignity. She never sought recognition—she simply cared.
We are incredibly proud of the difference she made and grateful to call her our mum.
Her kindness lives on in every life she touched
She gave her time freely to her local Alzheimer’s charity, supporting those facing difficult journeys with compassion, patience, and dignity. She never sought recognition—she simply cared.
We are incredibly proud of the difference she made and grateful to call her our mum.
Her kindness lives on in every life she touched
Jonathan Rice
Hello,
I have no story to tell right now, I do think that Alzheimer’s is something that can affect anyone so we should all support the society to find out more about it and hopefully put an end to something that distroys so many peoples lives.
Thank you
Nicola 🙏🙏🙏
I have no story to tell right now, I do think that Alzheimer’s is something that can affect anyone so we should all support the society to find out more about it and hopefully put an end to something that distroys so many peoples lives.
Thank you
Nicola 🙏🙏🙏
Nicola
My dear husband of 38 years was diagnosed with dementia in 2024, he has always been my rock as I have mobility problems. Since his diagnosis our lives have changed considerably, his memories of our time together has been almost totally been erased. We now take each day at a time. Because of other medical problems he is only allowed the lower dose of MEMANTINE. I miss him so much. Nobody to discuss how I feel. I just feel so alone.
Yvonne
My donation was in memory of the wife of a very close friend of mine who passed away recently from Alzheimer’s
Tony Tester
I am supporting The Alzheimer’s Society in memory of my beautiful Mum, Sadie Molesworth who lost her battle with this dreadful disease , 7 years ago.
My Mum was an amazing, loving Mum , who dedicated herself to looking after our family.
When she was diagnosed with dementia about 18 years ago, we knew nothing about this disease and had very little support.
I was told by the consultant to “ go away and enjoy the rest of your Mums life , whilst she can remember you.” We were left heartbroken and had to navigate this whole new, very cruel world.
My Dad died very suddenly and this just turned my Mums world upside down and without doubt, accelerated her dementia.
After many falls in her home( mostly at night when I wasent there), we were given no choice but to put mum into a care home. This guilt will forever stay with me.
After 9 very long and hard years, the last 5 of them my Mum no longer knowing who any of us were, my beautiful Mum lost her battle.
This May , both myself and my daughter are walking the 31 miles in May , in memory of my Mum.
Every step, I shall be thinking of her and all the others who are living with or have lost their life to this very, very cruel disease.
Hopefully oneday we can find a cure.
In June , I will wear my forget me not broach with pride and love. Xxx
My Mum was an amazing, loving Mum , who dedicated herself to looking after our family.
When she was diagnosed with dementia about 18 years ago, we knew nothing about this disease and had very little support.
I was told by the consultant to “ go away and enjoy the rest of your Mums life , whilst she can remember you.” We were left heartbroken and had to navigate this whole new, very cruel world.
My Dad died very suddenly and this just turned my Mums world upside down and without doubt, accelerated her dementia.
After many falls in her home( mostly at night when I wasent there), we were given no choice but to put mum into a care home. This guilt will forever stay with me.
After 9 very long and hard years, the last 5 of them my Mum no longer knowing who any of us were, my beautiful Mum lost her battle.
This May , both myself and my daughter are walking the 31 miles in May , in memory of my Mum.
Every step, I shall be thinking of her and all the others who are living with or have lost their life to this very, very cruel disease.
Hopefully oneday we can find a cure.
In June , I will wear my forget me not broach with pride and love. Xxx
Sarah
My beautiful mom was only properly diagnosed with vascular dementia 4 months before she passed away but we knew for a long time that something was not right. Not knowing anything about dementia I struggled with knowing how to deal with it. But I am forever grateful to the Alzheimer's Society who when I called in desperation talked things over with me. I then changed my approach with mom which was a absolute game changer - I take comfort knowing that even at the end she knew who I was miss her so much
Claudine
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